It’s not easy

When you love someone, really love them. If you make a decision, stand firm on it walking away doesn’t even cross your mind. You don’t look for the exit when things get hard, you look for a way through.

Not because it’s easy hell, love is never easy but because deep down, you know they’re worth it. You sit through the mess, the arguments, the awkward silences, not because you enjoy the struggle, but because the person across from you matters more than the discomfort.

Love isn’t about to put term and conditions according to your imaginary expectations and comfort, it seems like something extra cooking in your mind, because love isn’t about running when it gets tough.

There will be sunshine during the journey, it is not right to always expect shade. It’s about staying when everything inside you is screaming to leave, because you know what you have is worth the fight.

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  1. vermavkv's avatar vermavkv says:

    This is such a profound and heartfelt reflection on the true essence of love 💖. You’ve beautifully captured that real love is not about convenience, but about commitment, resilience, and the courage to stay even when the path is rough. 🌹 The way you described love as choosing perseverance over escape, and valuing the person above the discomfort, is deeply moving and inspiring. Truly a timeless reminder that love is built on patience, strength, and unwavering dedication. 🙏✨

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    1. Thank you so much Sir for appreciation 🙏🥰😊

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  2. vermavkv's avatar vermavkv says:

    You are welcome.
    Stay connected and keep sharing.

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  3. Ahmed's avatar Ahmed says:

    I needed to read this. It’s a reminder. Love is hard. But it’s worth the work.
    * Love is about showing up. Even when it’s messy. The quiet moments matter most. Thanks for this post.

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    1. Thank you so much Sir for appreciation 🙏🥰

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  4. Dinesh Kumar's avatar Dinesh Kumar says:

    “Love is a deep commitment, more than just a feeling or a passing desire. It is a deliberate choice to be present, to work through discomfort, and to value the person for who they are and what you share together. When love is seen as a commitment, each challenge becomes a chance for growth, and staying through the storms is what gives life and meaning to the relationship.”

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    1. Thank you so much Sir for appreciation 🙏🥰

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  5. A constant reminder !!! Beautifully expressed🦋

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    1. Thank you so much Mam for appreciation 🙏🥰

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      1. It’s a pleasure reading your blog as always 😇

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    1. Thank you so much for appreciation 🙏🥰

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  6. Absolutely true, and beautifully written.

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    1. Thank you so much Mam for appreciation 🙏🥰

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  7. this is so right but what if the question is – is it worth the fight?

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    1. Yeah because you choose him to love 🙏 thank you so much for comment 🙏😊

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  8. This is such a raw and real take on love—it’s not about perfection but about choosing each other through the storms.

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    1. 💯💯 thank you so much for comment 🙏🥰😊

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  9. Bancy Serah's avatar Serah says:

    🫰🏾🫰🏾🫰🏾
    Friendship means little when it’s convenient.

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    1. 💯 thank you so much for comment 🙏🥰

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      1. Bancy Serah's avatar Serah says:

        Thank you for sharing. Kind regards

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  10. rabia51's avatar rabia51 says:

    This is beautifully written and so true. Real love isn’t about perfection or convenience, it’s about commitment, patience, and choosing each other even in the hard times. Walking away may seem easier, but staying and working through the struggles is what makes love meaningful and lasting.

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    1. Thank you so much for appreciation 🙏🥰😊

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    1. Thank you so much for appreciation 🙏🥰😊

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