Relaxed

How do you relax?

When I do it successfully
What ever the task was
I feel relaxed

When the day’s target is accomplished
then I feel relaxed

If I could ever do exactly
what I thought
I feel relaxed.

When I spend time with loved ones
I feel relaxed

When I do good to someone
Or think good about them
I feel relaxed.

When I can have a long talk
with my best friend
I feel relaxed

When I repeatedly listen a song
matched with my current emotion
I feel relaxed

When I read something good
and it takes me into deep thought
I feel relaxed.

When I actually write ✍️
something good for the blog
I feel relaxed

When I find myself physically
And mentally fit for all my work
I feel relaxed

If I learned something new
or experienced something exciting
I feel relaxed

It’s not easy

When you love someone, really love them. If you make a decision, stand firm on it walking away doesn’t even cross your mind. You don’t look for the exit when things get hard, you look for a way through.

Not because it’s easy hell, love is never easy but because deep down, you know they’re worth it. You sit through the mess, the arguments, the awkward silences, not because you enjoy the struggle, but because the person across from you matters more than the discomfort.

Love isn’t about to put term and conditions according to your imaginary expectations and comfort, it seems like something extra cooking in your mind, because love isn’t about running when it gets tough.

There will be sunshine during the journey, it is not right to always expect shade. It’s about staying when everything inside you is screaming to leave, because you know what you have is worth the fight.

Tourism economy

Share a story about the furthest you’ve ever traveled from home.

Now a days ‘Tourism economy’ is in trend because it is contributing a lot in global GDP. Tourism playing important role in developed countries and also stimulates local economies by boosting demand for services and products, creating jobs, increasing revenue, and reducing poverty.

We can guess from the tourism advertisements of many countries that they are seeing hope and scope in it. Tourism acts as a growth engine, stimulating investment in infrastructure, promoting sustainable development, and fostering the conservation of cultural and natural heritage.

I am going to share a bike ride story between the capital Delhi and the Taj city Agra. Our group has taken the Yamuna Expressway. It is fun to ride on this road. It is a totally safe road. No outsider can enter it. If you ride once, you probably won’t find any cut on this road and you will reach Agra directly.

The entire expressway was covered with greenery. You will find stops at 40-50 kms. Here you will get hotels, restaurants, shops, public toilets, petrol pumps and all other facilities. It’s a amazing experience to ride on this road. It’s feels like you entered in another world it’s have own culture, decoration, greenery, cleanliness etc everything well maintained.

Blog

Why do you blog?

Blog are thoughts
You can express freely.

Blog are imagination
You can create magic

Blog are ocean
You can swim deeper

Blog are breeze
You can satisfy curiosity

Blog are dream
You can fly higher

Blog are memories
You can travel again

Blog are moments
You can feel it forever

Blog are emotions                                                 You can warmly hug

Blogs are journey
You can live destination

Blogs are knowledge
You can calm your mind

Blogs are lesson
You can squeeze your experience

Blog are consciousness                                              You can aware of existence

Blogs are guide
Full of information

Small adaptation

How are you feeling right now?

Charles Darwin’s theory of evolution and ‘survival of the fittest’ says that small adaptation can’t result as extinction. While small mutations create a survival advantage. species change over time through the gradual process of “descent with modification”.

He argued that an individual’s success won’t be determined by a single stroke of genius. It will be the by-product of a philosophy that fosters gradual evolution, mutation and adaptation in any and every aspect of an organism over an extended period of time.

This consept also applies to lives, thinking process, relationship, career and personal growth. Just a small deviation from the optimal route is amplified over time. That small change can create a big change later.

So if we really want improvement, we all need to add simple necessary rituals into our daily life which comes from small adjustments, as frequently as possible, in all aspects of our lives. That small adaptation in a positive direction leads you towards success.

Weather forecast

What was the last thing you searched for online? Why were you looking for it?

It is monsoon (rainy) season here in India right now. It is difficult to do civil construction and road construction work in this kind of weather. I have to take the help of Google’s wheather forecast to plan the day. It helps plan a day by providing information on expected conditions like rain, sun, or wind.

Google’s weather forecast is not always 100% accurate but it will help to plan the day. Whether should I take the risk to proceed the work or not? Knowing the forecast helps to avoid dangerous situations and make alternative plans if conditions are unfavorable, ultimately enhancing daily routines for outdoor works.

Due to bad weather condition there is always a fear of material getting spoilt, machinery failure, labour cost also goes waste, due to waterlogging it becomes difficult even walk on the site and  many other kinds of problems arises.

So every morning these days I used to go online google weather forecast page. So I can properly schedule my construction work.

Degree of common sense

This year, 2025, is the 80th year of that test, the world’s first nuclear weapon test. It is also the 80th year of the first use of the bomb that had been tested over the Japanese cities of Hiroshima and Nagasaki less than one month later, killing between 1,50,000 and 2,46,000 people, mostly civilians.

Leading the Director of the project, J. Robert Oppenheimer, to cite the Bhagavad Gita’s stunning imagery of Death by the light and heat of a thousand suns. On the very day that the bomb fell on Nagasaki, Bertrand Russell began drafting a statement that said:

“The prospect for the human race is sombre beyond all precedent. Mankind are faced with a clear-cut alternative: either we shall all perish, or we shall have to acquire some slight degree of common sense. A great deal of new political thinking will be necessary if utter disaster is to be averted.”

Remaining questions

Today evening when I was returning home, the street-lights of my street were lightening a little dimly, I don’t know why it was not as lively as usual. The street was quite quiet today there was no crowd due to the intermittent drizzle.

I don’t know why today I didn’t have the same enthusiasm to return home after the pressures of the day’s work. Today even my parents have gone to a distant religious place. I am alone at home too, I did not feel like returning home early but what could I do, it was raining.

I made a cup of coffee and sat on a chair kept in the balcony. The rain had also become stronger along with the wind. After reviewing the work once, my mind was going towards spirituality.

Many questions arose in my mind like what did I lose and what did I gain? What is happening in my life? Was this what I had planned? Am I moving in the right direction? Am I satisfied with what I am doing?

Some answers came immediately, some questions bothered me. The coffee was about to finish and now the books were calling for the remaining questions.

College farewell

It’s sad to believe that one day you share last moment with someone you love and you won’t even know it. You won’t realise that day your last chance to say all the things you always wanted to say. You want to apologize to some people for your mistakes and you want to forgive some people.

My graduation was about to complete, I had to give a speech in the farewell function and had to thank the organisers and teaching staff on behalf of my batch mates. We had come here with so much hope and expectation, with so much energy. We learnt so much, became such a better person. Today I had to describe the entire journey.

I went on the stage and started the speech. After 5-7 minutes there were tears in my eyes, now I was not able to utter the words. I stopped for a while, drank water and started speaking again. But once again, tears started flowing from my eyes and this time I ended my speech at that moment. Because I knew that I would not be able to complete my speech at this moment.

I think my decision to give a speech at the farewell function was probably wrong because I had the illusion that I am strong enough to handle such a situation easily. 4 years were about to end and everyone was going to move forward with their careers. This college campus and this atmosphere will be left here. After this, there will be only a few special friends with whom we will keep meeting again.

“Though we may part ways, the memories we’ve made will always keep us connected.”

Favourite movies

What are your top ten favorite movies?

Titanic
Manjhi (The mountain man)
Avatar
Dark knight rises
Chak de
Mohabbatein
Kabhi khushi kabhi Gum
Tere naam
The fault in our stars
Forever my girl                                                                Theory of everything