Author Archives: Shashwat Mishra

How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success?

Failure is very personal affair, it depends on the standards we have set for ourselves according to a society. For example you may have not gotten the job, but at least you didn’t get a DWI(driving while intoxicated).

Failure is the such thing that makes us regard philosophy not as a core subject of the humanities, but as something weaker and more fragile, always on the verge of being shattered by some crisis.

I’ve seen many failures in life, and many times I felt like if I had compromised a little and changed my decision, the outcome might have been different. That’s why I hold myself responsible for every such situation.

Often, failure teaches you a lot and motivates you to move forward, even if it’s only for a short time. But if it lasts longer, then your decisions are wrong and need to be changed.

We may fail to accomplish something and bear the sting of a wounded ego, no matter how bitter failure is, but we know how to fight with the situation as a warrior and know the taste of victory.

Do you believe in fate/destiny?

Some believe life’s major events are already written or controlled by a higher power. In which geography, climate or country we will be born, who our parents and what’s their economic background will be, all this is predetermined.

But in the Gita a religious text, says karma’s about doing your duty (dharma) without attachment to outcomes. It’s more about the intent and action than the result. Karma stresses personal accountability, suggesting that one’s current life situation is a direct result of past actions.

Karma means that the totality of a person’s actions determine whether good or bad things will happen in this life and in the next life as well. I strongly believe in this philosophy how you dream about your life then how you plan to execute it, your action and dedication will decide your current and future.

What is the biggest challenge you will face in the next six months?

Challenges are just part of the ride! Break it down into smaller pedals, stay curious, and adjust as you go. Want to dive into what’s blocking you, or need a boost to push that limit.

Life’s dynamic, so challenges are part of it and you have to regularly face it. find that sweet spot where your core principles guide you. It builds trust, respect, reputation and integrity. How do you keep that out in upcoming months, it’s a challenge.

Staying true to your core values and beliefs is what gives you direction and purpose. It’s all about being authentic and consistent with who you are. That’s keeping you motivated to stay true to yourself. And look forward with concentration towards your goal.

What bores you?

Boring persons talk too much about themselves and show little interest in others. The self-centered bore holds the floor too long, is long-winded, and when telling a story takes forever to make a point.

In the beginning, such people try to appear that everything about them is “in black and white,” until later their true colors come out. They are only heroes in words. They’ll get their work done from you without any hesitation, but they won’t be of any use to you when you need it.

Share your weaknesses. Share your hard moments. Share your real side. It’ll either scare away every fake person in your life or it will inspire them to finally let go of that mirage called “perfection,” which will open the doors to the most important relationships.

Who are your favorite people to be around?

Favourite people to be around are generally those who bring out the best in you, who really care for you, offering genuine connection, emotional safety, give unconditional support and shared joy.

I actually like living alone. Even when I’m in home, I spend max time alone in my room with books, laptop or mobile. Otherwise I spend moments with my parents, with them my home is heaven. I get that level of comfort with my parents.

No matter how many failures I faced, they never let me get discouraged. I don’t remember my parents ever behave rudely, making unnecessary pressure, speaking hard or scolding me for any mistake.

I was given complete freedom to make whatever decisions I made in life. My parents stood by me with all their might to support me. They wholeheartedly wished for your success and genuinely happy about your win.

Write about your approach to budgeting.

The ability to earn income is critical to sustaining livelihoods. Having a definite source of income is the bedrock of budgeting.

If you have a set salary, you can easily divide it up, how much to spend where, how much to save or invest.

But if you have more than one source of income and the amount of income is not fixed, then there are some complications in budgeting.

If you do business, have investments in many places and regular work is going on, then you have to hire a chartered accountant to manage, bill, taxes, GST, and profits.

So if you do a job where you get paid at a fixed time, then life follows a set pattern, more or less calculated budget.

And if you run a business, budgeting can be a bit challenging because it depends on profit and loss. And if you don’t do anything, it’s a cause for concern.

Because everyone should make allowance in their budgets for uncertainties like health issues, social engagements, inflation, unemployment, recession and price shocks.

Are there any activities or hobbies you’ve outgrown or lost interest in over time?

My interests in many things have either shifted or changed completely. I feel like I’ve become a little selfish and a lot more lazy. As a result, I find it’s best to just stick to the bare minimum.

Losing interest over time, often affects hobbies, physical activity, sports, social interactions, romantic relationships etc. Instead of doing all this I prefer to take rest and a proper sleep.

Aging and changing social environments are responsible for this. Because even if people get free from work, they prefer to remain busy on their mobile phones instead of going out and playing any sports.

I never imagined I would be blogging actively on the online platform like WordPress. It needs a proper time and have many excellent fellow bloggers to read. This is a prime example of an interest shift.

What’s your favorite candy?

Childhood memories.

Do you need a break? From what?

I belong to a generation that has seen life without phones and the internet. I’ve witnessed how a simple communication device is transferred quickly and keep updating regularly. And slowly and silently become a vital part of life. And we also accepted it too and no any question arises, it became a part of our culture.

This evolution has completely changed the entire human life style. Mobile phones have become a compulsory part of life. Living without it seems impossible. When work ends, there’s the dazzling world of social media, videos, and reels. So much is happening through this device. I think in 24 hours, I’ll have at least 8-10 hours of screen time.

I’ve often felt compelled to get involved in meaningless things, only to realize later that I’ve just wasted my time. So I want a proper break from mobile phone and internet. Turn off unnecessary notifications and avoid constant multitasking on devices. Create screen-free times for a week or month. Engage in offline hobbies, reading, travelling, gardening, cooking, or fitness routines.

How do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life?

After completing my studies, I failed to build a career. I tried many things but didn’t achieve the desired success. I had to endure a long struggle, endure many bitter experiences, and learn a lot. Instead of blaming circumstances, struggles encourage taking responsibility for one’s life and reactions.

In times of struggle, a person becomes very sensitive about his self-respect. He gets very upset by any negative viewpoint and unnecessary starts reacting to everything. Going through hard times allows people to better understand and connect with the struggles of others.

But the struggle in your life doesn’t last forever, things change with time. By facing difficult circumstances, you emerge even stronger. Overcoming hardship prepares individuals to handle future challenges, making life’s difficulties feel more manageable.

Struggle fosters a “growth mindset,” forcing individuals out of comfort zones to re-evaluate priorities and find deeper meaning. This process often leads to increased maturity, empathy, and a, renewed appreciation for life’s everyday blessings.