Author Archives: Shashwat Mishra

These mornings and evenings are spent amidst all the difficulties of life. A continuous cycle of planning, execution, and effort to do something new and different. Sometimes struggling with my own circumstances and the daily complications tires me.

The truth is I didn’t need any therapy. I just needed to feel loved and happy to know that someone out there craved my attention. The other person feels that every step in blogging I take is with her in mind. She sees potential in even my most negative reactions.

It feels like I’m blessed. I can influence someone’s thoughts through my pen. And if the results are visible, through whatever medium, I believe I’m doing the right thing. And this is not my illusion, this is actually happening.

But now it’s okay if some things remain illusions. That era is gone, that youthness, that innocence, that flow is gone. It is not anyone’s fault, time and circumstances forced us to do so.

We all deserve a calm love.
A love that brings peace and comfort
not chaos and confusion.

We all deserve a genuine love
A love that is natural, spontaneous
No any struggle or fight for supremacy

We all deserve a love that feels like a safe haven
where you can be yourself without fear.
Nothing required to hide inbetween

We all deserve a preferential love
Love that remains true to its words and promises.
Not with full of illusion and fake stories.

We all deserve a faithful love
A love that supports and understands you,
stands by you through thick and thin.

We all deserve love that prioritizes you
a love that makes feel a little bit easier and brighter.
not the one who runs away in trouble

We all deserve a devoted love
A love that will never let you go away for the rest of your life
who stays with you till your last breath.

What’s your favorite month of the year? Why?

It’s hard to pinpoint my favorite month right now at this stage of life because every month feels the same. Same work pressure, struggles every morning and evening, same dreams of achieving something new etc. Amidst all this, the difference between months and seasons is unnoticeable.

But I can tell you about my childhood, that is summer vacation month, it used to be in June at my place. Summer vacation is not just a break from studies for students, it is the best time of the year where the alarm clock is on vacation, the school bag gets a rest, and the day is licensed to have fun.

No rush to get up early in the morning, no pressure of homework. Summer vacation gives you the opportunity to decorate your day in your own way whether it is sports, a hobby of painting, or an exciting trip with family or friends.

In the summer vacation granny’s house is new world around us to be discovered. There are new foods, friends, talk to new people, different environment  to live in. We have lots of  memories of these trips, and we fondly look back on these days even today.

If you will have to make changes for your own betterment. You may have to pay a price for that, as some people may not accept these changes. They may not be comfortable with the changes taking place in you but.

You are allowed to change without explanation. Life doesn’t owe anyone a neatly typed letter justifying why you’ve become someone new. If they question you, let them their confusion isn’t your responsibility.

Your evolution is personal, private, written quietly inside the uneven pages of your own story. No apologies, no reasons, only your growth and mental peace are important.

Just you, shifting, becoming, living honestly even if it confuses the hell out of everyone else. You have complete right to live your life on your own terms and conditions.

What’s the first impression you want to give people?

When I meet someone new, I welcome him with a graceful smile. A genuine smile is a powerful nonverbal cue that is crucial to making a positive first impression. It really helps to start a positive and warmth communication.

My simplicity with a normal behaviour communicates warmth, trustworthiness, and confidence to the person in front of me. That can make them seem more approachable, intelligent, and successful.

A smile genuinely lighten the mood and foster more fruitful communication. This simple expression often creates a welcoming atmosphere, putting others at ease and helping to break down barriers, which leads to more open and positive verbal exchanges.

What book are you reading right now?

This book have looked at dozens of stories about top performers. It talked about olympic gold medalists, award winning artists, business leaders, life saving physicians and star comedians who have all used science of small habits to master their craft and vault to the top of their field.

Sucess is not a goal to reach or a finish line to cross. It is a system to improve, an endless process to refine. If you are having trouble changing your habits, the problem isn’t you. The problem is your system. Bad habit repeat themselves again and again not because you don’t want to change, but because you have the wrong system for change.

This is a continuous process. There is no finish line. There is no permanent solution. Whenever you’re looking to improve make it obvious, attractive and easy. Make it satisfying round and round. The power of atomic habit is in tiny changes and have remarkable results.

Who is the most famous or infamous person you have ever met?

I recently met him with a purpose, and he greeted me with great affection, and my work was done. A great man’s thinking, vision, and work ethic are completely different from those of ordinary people. Whenever I meet him, I feel inspired and energized.

He is the leader of the Congress Party, India’s oldest political party, which has contributed significantly to the country’s independence and subsequent development. So, it’s natural that any meeting with him will inevitably lead to discussions on politics, whether it’s the national political situation or international politics.

Since he was also an IAS officer, secretary to the Union Railway Minister and personal secretary to Prime Minister Indra Gandhi, he recounts several incidents from his administrative experience. He explores how those at the center of power, who wield absolute power, formulate policies for the public and what their thinking is.

He must be around 85 years old. He is book, magazine, news lover and still actively keeps abreast of everything happening in the country and the world. You can talk to him about anything and any subject. He speaks with such love and affection that I feel like I could keep talking to him while he shares stories from his experiences.

What will your life be like in three years?

A morning cheerfully welcomes us with its arms wide open, the blue sky scattered, gathering the sun’s radiance from one side, as if trying to feel alive. It like a dream we imagine every day to live. Morning teaches us that life becomes more and more bright the longer we live.

The lush green fields, drenched in the golden light of the sun, remind us how colourful life is. Today nature is so kind and is saying that both give and receive such beautiful things as ideas, openness, dignity, joy, healing, and inclusion.

The horse running fearlessly and swiftly towards its destination is as if telling us that life is passing by every moment, keep moving forward quickly no matter what the path is. Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.

When there is struggle in life, when no way is understood. When you’re stuck in the middle of uncertainty, remember you’ve been here before, and each time, somehow, you’ve found your way through. Trust that the confusion, the hurt, and the struggles you’re facing right now will make sense someday.

One day, you’ll look back and realize all the moments you thought were setbacks were actually nudging you gently toward something better. These struggles of life teach you a lot and make you capable, so that you can face every challenge in your path with full courage.

Because life isn’t about perfectly planned paths, it’s about trusting that each detour holds purpose, each delay holds meaning, and each difficulty holds a quiet promise that eventually, in its own time. So there is no need to stop, there is no need to think too much, just keep moving forward, everything will truly be okay.

What does it mean to be a kid at heart?

The activities that are the easiest, cheapest, and most fun to do like playing games, reading, storytelling, and just talking and listening. Happy in just little things, shout celebration in every little win, smile on your face without any reason, no any tension because share everything with parents.

Chances of improvement in everything we just want to do whether it is behaviour, manner, creativity, learning etc. Curiosity to still to know everything, anger and resentment can disappear instantly if someone just talks to you lovingly. There should be no any kind of discrimination against anyone.